[dropcap]I[/dropcap] love my plants. I have a humble collection in pots on the balcony. They’re like my children. A rewarding responsibility. And they’re all special. Many of them I’ve grown from seeds. Some have been given to me as gifts. And some I’ve rescued from the discounted bin/trolley of death. They each have a story to tell and a special spot in my heart/memory. I want to keep them all. And more. But the reality is I can’t. I have limited space and my taste in plants change too. Sometimes I have to let some of them go. To make space for new ones. This isn’t always easy to do. Because sometimes I get attached to them. And it’s difficult to part with the things that we love. But it has to be done. And it’s not a bad thing. It’s common sense and wise. It’s healthy to move on/forward. It’s natural to get rid of something old for something new to exist.
This post is not just about how to upgrade plants. It’s more about the idea of non-attachment. In a very basic definition, non-attachment is a state of being free/liberated from things. Objects/people or ideas. Attachment is the root/cause of suffering. And impermanence is a reality of life. By not clinging to things and by knowing that nothing lasts forever, we’re able to live in the moment and appreciate life/things on a deeper/fuller level. Life is short. And change is the only constant. Being attached to things can hold us back. It can keep us stuck/stagnant and locked up. Stubborn to try something new or evolve. The world/universe is an incredible/extraordinary place. Have faith in the future and god. And learn to let go. And go with the flow of life. 1
When it comes to plants, non-attachment is very helpful. Especially if you have limited space. If you no longer want a plant, simply remove it and move on. Sounds drastic but practical. Find it a new home, give it away, sell it or if you dare/must, throw it in the bin. And replace it with something new. There’s no need to feel guilty. It’s just your ego talking. (And if it’s any consolation, there’s a good chance that other specimens of its kind exists. So it won’t go extinct. And you can always replace it if you change your mind later.) If you’re sentimental, take a photo of it first. It can help. And remember, you still have the beautiful memories of it with you to keep. Yes, plants are special. But life is short and a journey. Get real and make things work/happen. There’s a lot to learn and explore. Don’t fear letting go. And don’t let anything hold you back.
David
Caterpillars can’t do so much damage! We have a variety that eats our citrus tree leaves and looks like bird poop! The most amazing thing is how nature helps them all to blend and hide!
I used to have apricot brugmansia but it didn’t like Maine. It was too cold with too little sun!
Ngeun
Hi David, thanks for your comment. Loopers can be voracious eaters so will keep a close eye on the not so hardy plants. They blend perfectly with the green leaves. And their metamorphosis is amazing. I like the flowers of Brugmansia and look foward to these ones. Would be great to arrange and paint them too. Hopefully, it likes our company and weather. :)
Cynthia and Pet
Beautiful post Ngeun!
We think that, the one thing that we should never let go of, is love.
It is the only thing that can remain eternal/permanent and will never be the cause,of suffering.
We love you Ngeun, eternally!!
Always.
Cynthia and the pet.
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Ngeun
Thanks Cynthia and Pet! Very true, love and hope always exists and should always be constant. We need to make it happen and always believe in it. Love you both very much too. <3